Episode 45

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22nd Jul 2025

Magnetism, Masculine Energy & Making Millions with Monica Yates

What does it really mean to embody feminine power in business?

In this episode, I sit down with Monica Yates—trauma healer, feminine-masculine embodiment coach, and CEO of a multi-7-figure company that’s rewriting the rules of wealth, energy, and womanhood.

We talk about everything from trauma and triggers to polarity and power. And trust me—this isn’t just another surface-level convo about manifestation. Monica brings the heat, the depth, and the unapologetic truth about what it takes to build an empire without burning out, hustling in your masculine, or shrinking your standards to make people comfortable.

Inside this episode, we get into:

  • The real difference between feminine energy and performative femininity
  • Why trauma work isn’t optional if you want to scale
  • How to hold duality: wealth and worth, softness and strength, heart and strategy
  • Monica’s personal story of pain, polarity, and power—and how she turned it into millions
  • Tactical shifts to attract more aligned clients, income, and intimacy

This is one of those episodes you’ll want to pause, replay, and sit with. It’s bold, it’s deep, and it will change how you lead.

About Our Guest:

Monica Yates is a New York Times bestselling author, trauma healer, feminine and masculine embodiment coach, and the host of Feminine As F*ck Podcast. She helps women get into their magnetic feminine energy, and men feel ecstasy and intimacy.

You can find Monica at monicayateshealth.com and monicayateshealth on IG. Her NY Times Bestselling book is here.

Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.

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If you’re scaling something real—something legacy-level—you don’t need another coach. You need a partner. Someone who can step inside your business, see the full picture, and help you move faster, cleaner, smarter. My private 1:1 advisory containers are available in 3, 6, or 9-month commitments. You bring the vision. I bring the strategy, structure, and support to help you lead it all. https://ashleydeland.com/advisory

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She Wears the Pants
A podcast for the modern female founder looking to pull up a seat into conversations surrounding powerful marketing strategies, creating meaningful brands, actionable business advice, and the real stories behind being a woman in business.

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